I'm Back Bitches!!

It's been almost a year since I last posted, which I will attribute to the "life" aspect of this blog getting waaay out of control.  I've simply had no time.  Recently, I lost my job thanks to some assholes at the Hospital From Hell so my schedule just freed up!

Lucky for you guys I intend to follow the Drunken Peasants, especially as they come to my neck of the woods - Seattle - for a meetup with fans, although; by 'neck of the woods' I actually four hours north of me.  That should be very interesting. 

Also, I will devotedly post more "A Quip of Witticism" on a more regular basis and post articles that seemingly portray the atmosphere of cultural changes affecting life.  Lists will be posted for your amusement as those seem to be popular.

For your consideration -  please comment or share any posts you find absurd or intriguing.  You can't hurt my feelings; I have a Muslim husband who likes to criticize as frequently as he breathes - with that being said I encourage comments.  Plus, they are fun to read.

Lastly, I will post more personal items, particularly about my husband who can be amusingly neurotic, but who isn't these day?!  

Enjoy!  

~Chelsea

Falling In Love Is Not Losing Independance

Oh Lordy!  Love notoriously makes people do strange things.  By Love I refer specifically to my love - Said.  FYI: he's a Muslim from North Africa.  Most people gasp when they learn who he is, but they usually forget Said is a man and any man can fall in love or be a Muslim.

Recently we had some good news: our fiance visa application was approved, making our relationship legally recognized.  However, when posting this news on the all-powerful Facebook not all friends and family were supportive of the idea.  It doesn't bother me to know people are skeptics, but what does get on my nerves (as I'm sure it does with other interfaith couples) is people giving me advice by implying I don't know what I'm doing.

Marriage is like the Oregon Trail; it's long, rough, and extremely unpleasant.  But, the journey is with the person you love and sometimes it's best just to sit back and enjoy the scenery.  Marriage is tough enough without adding complicated religious, social, and economic differences as substantial as mine and Said's.

People who know me - and for those who don't - I can say I'm passionately independent and  well educated.  On top of that I have been with Said for 6 years. I know what kind of deal I'm getting and I plan on surviving every storm in life - and having a better relationship for it. 

~ Chelsea